Goodbyes are so hard

We had dinner last night with our dear friends the Pints as a final goodby before they move.  The movers are packing up their belongings today.  Tuesday they stay in Portland.  Wednesday they fly to back to their hometown in Iowa.

I met Kelly on a parenting website several years ago.  While I didn't really know her personally, I knew of her through her writing.  I discovered that she had moved to Oregon, to my little town, and we met and became instant friends.  I have so appreciated her friendship...her encouragement, her understanding, her advice, her acceptance.  I don't make friends that easily and while Kelly is a busy extrovert with lots of people in her life and a busy household of 10 children, I have felt a special kinship with her and with her family.  While I am so thankful for modern technology to keep in touch, I feel a great loss having her move from 5 minutes away to 29 hours away.  I don't know when I will see her again...when my children will see their friends again.

 

And in other news...today is Ezzy's due date.  Today is the day that likely would have passed us by (as all of my children have been born past their due date) but that we would have been in full anticipation of a birth, of a family transition to 6th children, of welcoming a new little one to our family.  The two events I will always remember....his death and his due date of what could have been.

Goodbyes are so hard.

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